I chose Authentic PUA because of Steve’s youtube videos where he was approaching women. He seemed natural (was not trying to be someone that he isn’t), great attitude and he got RESULTS. I also wanted to give day game a try and not just night game because I was getting bored of loud clubs and bars and felt it would be much easier to build a connection with a girl on the street.
Steve taught the boot camp 3:1 with just two other students and 3 other coaches joined along during the weekend, so we got a lot of personalised attention.
At the start of the boot camp, Steve talked us through the mindset we needed to adopt when approaching women which did help eliminate any anxieties. The theory didn’t last long and it wasn’t long till we first started approaching. Steve’s relaxed and confident demeanour really helped encourage me to start approaching girls.
Admittedly, my first three approaches did not go well which left me feeling increasingly apprehensive and anxious about approaching women. But Steve was at hand to observe all my approaches and spell out exactly where I was at fault and helped improve my techniques. After taking on board his advice I had my first number close with a really pretty Spanish girl. I felt great and it boosted my confidence. Soon after, I started approaching from all directions as I was having such a fun time and most importantly I was getting results - the reactions were all positive. I was talking to girls I wouldn’t usually have the courage to talk to and getting numbers. Come the evening I was regularly opening 4/5 sets effortlessly and approaching all kinds of beautiful women with good results.
After a break, in the early evening, we commenced the night game and I ended up leaving the club early with a blonde ;)
I took what I learned on the boot camp with me and that is what made such a big difference to my life. Steve made me realise that I had it in me all along, I just had to let it out and with Steve’s guidance (as well as the other trainers) has really changed my success with women.
Post boot camp I have gone out with plenty of girls I consider to be very attractive (including a blonde bikini model). It’s a great feeling to know that I now posses the skill set to have the romantic life I always wanted.
As an instructor Steve has the experience and knowledge to make sure you are approaching correctly in order to get results. Time isn’t wasted learning theory and you start practicing in field quickly. It was an amazing experience and had lots of fun too.
After deciding to work on my pretty much non existent day game I booked a 2 day 1 on 1 meeting with Steve. We met on Bond Street on a Saturday afternoon, had a chat about my current level, experience and goals for what I was aiming to achieve. Although I do well in night game, day game was completely new to me and the thought of cold approaching a girl in the street that I fancied terrified me, I wanted to get to the stage where I was fearless about approaching regardless of the outcome. He recommended buying a more peacocky t shirt so once that was sorted we were ready to go.
We began by slowing everything down, spotting IOIs and simple greetings to get in the right frame. I also had the pleasure of meeting [name] for an hour and it was impressive to see him in action, another guy who is the real deal.
My first approach went pretty horrible, I went indirect and had nothing to follow it up with. Steve and [name] advised not to focus on what to say and just for for it and not fill my head full of nonsense. Things started getting easier, after a few more approaches I got a number. Steve could sense when I was trying to wuss out and gave me the encouragement I needed to carry on. Another number, it was getting easier...
I had gone into more direct approaches and was seeing results, Steve was able to offer further pointers regarding energy, body language, tonality etc but never letting me get hung up on it. We focused on the results and with each approach I was more knowledgeable than the last. I no longer needed the nudge to get going and was unfazed by any rejection. What surprised me most was how friendly girls are when you open them, they will thank you for the complement even if they have a boyfriend or are I'm a rush. At the very worst they will keep walking, this can be put down to coming across too meek and numerous other variables.
Back to the approaches, as Steve and I were eating, chatting, joking with the waitresses and analysing the awful attempts from some guys from a day game outfit, a 6 foot Amazonian solid 8 Thandie Newton lookalike walked by. I approached immediately, told her she'd took me from my steak and got chatting, shortly after I had a number and we'd arranged to meet later.
I walked back to Steve who smiled, shook my hand and said 'that ones in the bag mate', a few hours later I had her back at my hotel. I'd booked 16 hours with Steve, I'd gone from really anxious to near fearless in less than 5 hours. We had a full day planned for the Sunday but I had to pass as I spent the day with the Thandie lookalike. For me the training was a massive success, I had no idea the mindset metamorphosis would come so quickly and I am amazed with the results.
Steve comes across as a genuine guy, after a couple of hours feels like a close mate and his advice and strategies are bang on. He really wants you to succeed and when you walk back post approach you see he's rooting for you and ready give his opinion.
To summarise, in 5 hours I probably did 12 or so approaches, got 3 numbers from attractive women and I took home the one I liked the most. Best money I have ever spent.
This review is for the 7 day residential course. This course has fundamentally changed my life for the better.
I've wanted to get this area of my life sorted for a while. There's only so much you can learn from books, videos and other people on forums; experience is the best teacher and so, with that philosophy in mind, I went out to seek the course that was right for me.
I first came across Steve's name through others. He is still today spoken about in somewhat hushed tones with a degree of reverence, and rightly so; the term 'natural' was coined because of men like him. I didn't contact Steve immediately or visit his website - instead I saw what others had to say about him - and it was all positive. I'm pleased to say, he deserves every last word of it.
Personally, I decide to enroll on this course to achieve two tactical goals and one strategic. The two tactical goals were a) to make sure that from now on I would be doing just as much 'selecting' as the women in my life; I wanted to start dating the women I actually wanted, not just the ones I thought I could get, and b) to make sure that I would never again face the feeling of going home and kicking myself if an attractive woman came into my life, however briefly and, through fear or inertia, I did nothing. The strategic goal was to instill more confidence, a greater sense of masculinity and enrich and accentuate my best qualities at all times. I'm pleased to say, all three have been achieved, and plenty more in spades. The course has changed my life in a very deep, very powerful way.
If you're thinking of enrolling on the course, I would like to proffer some advice. First of all, be aware that this course isn't for everyone. Before signing up and making the not insignificant investment, take a good, long, hard look at yourself in the mirror. You'll only have one week with Steve. What about your current situation can you fix yourself, before the course, as preparation, so as to give yourself the best possible shot at success? What steps can you take to improve your life? This is your course and your results; Steve's reality won't change if you decide to make no effort yourself. Secondly. bring the right attitude. The work lies with you. The growth and development lies with you. Steve has nothing to prove to you. Don't turn up begging him for demos while you sit back scared in the background. The work and responsibility is on your shoulders; Steve can only do so much. If you're scared, that's good, because it shows that change is about to happen; good things will come your way, my friend! Thirdly, be clear about your objectives. Your results will always directly correlate with your commitment, so don't cheat yourself. Know what you want from the course and make sure you leave with it. Tell Steve what you want and don't be afraid to speak your mind. Be challenging, but constructive, and you'll get on fine.
Finally, if anyone has any concern, as some of my friends did, that this course will turn you into a b*stard, dimiss that nonsense from your mind now. All this course will do is teach you how to be more attractive to women, how to change your perspective on your own appeal to women and how to maximise your pre-existing attractive qualities. It won't turn you into something you're not. So, in short, if you're already a b*stard, then yes, this course will make you better at being one. If you're not, it won't. Simple.
Think hard. Then email Steve. It could well be the best email you ever send.
Enjoy the changes. I know I'm enjoying mine.
If you take away one important thing from my review it's that you have to APPLY YOURSELF. You have to fully commit and take responsibility. Don't invest all your time and money into this program if you're not going to take advice from Steve and his colleagues.
And that's what it is, an investment. It might seem like a lot of money, but the resources and the knowledge you gain over two days (or a week depending on what you pay for) is really worth it, it's an investment for the future.
Over the weekend, I met over 20 women, I don't know the exact number. But I approached all of them. Might not sound like a lot, but compare those sort of numbers to the last year of your life. How many girls, out of the blue, did you go up to and start talking to? In two days I spoke to 20 different women. For me, that's more than the past year!
My experience was eye opening and very interesting. The best way I can describe it is, it's like being in The Matrix. You're with Morpheus, Neo and Trinity for two days. The artificial world you're in is London, you slow yourself down and you start to see the "code" a.k.a. IOI's and you really have to free your mind to be active but also appreciate the experience.
I got a number, but I wasn't into her that much. I could've made it go somewhere if I wanted but it's about practice. Start off with the 6/7s and build your way up. I gave a couple other girls my numbers, I got some kisses from girls too. Nothing special. Standard on this weekend in fact. But like I said before, if you compare all of these things to the last year of your life then it's actually pretty f*cking cool!
You also have to be the best person you can be. Before I was overweight, had a bad diet, didn't exercise. Didn't have a great fashion sense. So fundamentally you have to be sound. You have to work on your mechanics i.e. the way you dress, your haircut, your facial hair, your overall presence and how you present yourself. Your attitude. All of these things you have to work on and get right. If you can do the most you can do on your own, Steve can easily take care of the rest.
You're not going to be a changed man after this weekend. You're not all of a sudden going to be Casanova. It takes practice, I love this quote by Will Smith.
"Skill is only developed by hours and hours and hours of beating on your craft."
And that's what it takes, hours and hours and hours of day game, night game and using the knowledge Steve and the guys teach you. Put that into practice whenever, wherever you can and you can only get better.
This was one of those things that I decided to do on a whim. I dont have problems speaking with women, nor am I shy - but watching the videos on the site, I really wanted to be able to do what Steve does during the day time.
I got this and much more. It was an eye opener, not only did Steve and his team do everything to calibrate and help me, they gave great feedback, and before I knew it, numbers were going into my phone.
By the end of the final night, due to the company and progress over the weekend, I realized something about myself that was so profound that it seemed absurdly simple in retrospect - most great discoveries are.
I highly recommend this service to any guy looking to improve their skills with beautiful and strong women.
One word of caution - be prepared to leave your comfort zone, because if you keep doing what you have always done, you will always get the same results!
I did manage to get a few hours with Steve on 1-on-1 training and a bootcamp as well. I got to say its incredible the amount of knowledge he is passing on to you. He was very professional. He did not throw me in the deep water. He asked a few questions to find out about my needs than it was all infield program.
I liked that he took me infield as soon we were ready to go and not just talking about the whole pick up as many other trainers do in a hotel. The whole time he was reassuring how I did with providing feedback. It was like taking a professional training for work.
I enjoyed those 3 days in total. An eye opener experience with the best PUA out there.
Ryan Fenton found this review useful
As someone with very little experience in this field, i was more than a little apprehensive but Steve immediately puts you at ease. Making approaches is of course the aim of the game and the more you make, the more useful feedback you get from Steve who is observing from only a short distance away. His insights are always spot on. I would say that the success of a one-to-one session with Steve really depends on your willingness to approach girls so that you give him something to work with. If you already have a bit of experience under your belt then you could really gain a lot from a couple of hours spent with a true expert. After watching him effortlessly flirt his way through a department store and very quickly gain the interest of a very attractive store assistant, i realised that this man not only talks the talk but walks the walk. As for me, i'm off to buy some Cuban heels and put some of his wisdom into practice.
It is clear that Steve has a wealth of knowledge in the area of talking to woman and building attraction. On the day I met Steve he gave me alot of advice, not only with the way i speak and how i should come across to woman by being a more dominant figure but also advice on how to tip the odds to my side as much as possible.
Throughout the day I was approaching woman in department stores and on the street something i would never have done otherwise if not for meeting with Steve. There were a few snippets of success to build upon. It was unfortunate that the weather that day didn't help my cause but i believe with the knowledge i was given will only help me in the future when it comes to woman.
The Holy Grail of pickup is the best way to sum up Steve's style of game in the sense that it gives maxium results for minimal effort. I started a full day's training with a day session with Steve. The weather was not the most clement so we went to the comfortable setting of a large department store to begin training. Steve himself had a strong masculine presence that women responded to with strong eye contact as we just simply walked about the store. Over the course of the day I began to pick up traits of that presence. We began with a very useful breakdown of how to improve my image through exercise, diet and fashion, followed by handy info on how to be as relaxed as possible when approaching. Steve then demoed some approaches and learning from this I was eased into doing my own approaches. By my third approach I number closed a stunning greek looking girl working at a perfume counter. She had a strong professional wall up but I persisted in a friendly way until I started connecting with the real her. I was on a massive high after this and soon afterwards had a brilliant interaction with an extremely hot German girl working the lingerie section! Steve emphasised the importance of appreciating a girl's face/body in an unsleazy, healthy way. I used a lot of this with the German girl which had her in fits of girlish giggles. Had a number of other good interactions but on a personal level I noticed that the more attractive the girl was the better the interaction was as my interest in her was stronger than my social fear and I was more inspired with my conversation. I now know that I can cold approach young amazing women and get tham attracted to me despite that I'm in my forties.
I was kept company for the night session by Adam who was very friendly, chatty and easy going, so after ten minutes I felt I was on a night out with my best mate. Before we started infield training he gave me a very comprehensive breakdown of the elements of night game, everything from the approach to the extraction. Adam's energy was boundless as he worked the venue, opening set after set, girls in groups, girls alone or mixed groups, always with a fun, confident vibe. He consistently generated attraction with these sets and always quite quickly. The logic behind this was to get yourself in a social, chatty state and to be able to reopen these sets as a new friend rather than as a stranger. Adam brought me to venues absolutely thronged with young attractive women and we chatted to numerous girls of various nationalities, French, Spanish, American, Norwegian, Venezuelan. In one venue we took over a podium by the dance floor and started doing some high energy dancing while waving, cheering and high fiveing girls we already chatted to. Soon we had three girls join us on the podium for a bit of a dance off. Afterwards we chilled out in the smoking area where I kiss closed a cute Spanish girl and a girl from Chicago commented on my charm and positivity. Adam himself number closed an attractive 18 year old Venezuelan girl. The stand out moment of the night for me was when we spotted a trio of hot girls kissing a small statue of a woman. Adam boldy went in and with a cheeky smile started kissing the statue as well. This caused the trio to start competing for his attention. Eventually Adam zoned in on one of them and I started a nice chat with her friend. However the girl that was left out got lonely and dragged her friends away! We ended the night with Adam giving me a debrief so I can repeat his results for myself. He also gave me an extra two hours training without charge.
Both trainers added greatly to me and I'm firmly on the path to having amazing women in my life.
Training Type: 2 Day Residential
Over the course of the 2 days I took with Authentic PUA a hell of a lot of stuff was covered. My skill level going into this was zero having never done an approach before in my life. The residential was very well organized with all trainers involved and every trainer was genuine and committed to helping you improve over the course of the weekend.
The first day had two training sessions. The first was with Colin who provided a breakdown of the fundamentals of cold approach pick up with lots of information on self identity, pick up structure, which things work and why they work. It was one of the most coherent and comprehensive breakdowns of what “game” really is all about. A structure is presented on how pick-ups look and the different phases that are gone through. Colin struck me as incredibly intelligent with a knack for explaining some complex concepts in understandable terms and ways you can relate to. Overall it’s some of the best stuff if not the best I’ve ever read on pick up from a theory perspective.
The second training session was with Adam where we went to a club in central London for the night to put some of the stuff Colin was speaking about into action. Adam also was very understanding of the skill level I was at and presented me with some good advice prior to the point where we started talking and meeting women. Adam did numerous demos throughout the night and explaining what he was doing and why. It was eye opening just to see someone like Adam being able to approach and consistently get attraction but also to see the other side that rejection happens to everyone and even Adam throughout the course of the night. Adam’s style is fun and was great to spend the night in the club with and we had two very solid interactions with both of us invovled which allowed me to see how things work from opening through to extraction from a night club venue. Once we left the nightclub Adam did some demos of street game which again was another eye opener and a reality check that you don’t need to do anything flashy or special in pick up to get results. After this we then debriefed in the casino and Adam again presented a lot of advice and things to work on. Overall a really great night with a lot principles learned and demonstrated.
The second day was another 2 sessions this time with Steve and Lee. I met Steve on Oxford Street and discussed aesthetic, masculinity and mindset for cold approach pick up. After meeting Steve I could immediately tell this guy was the business and definitely knows what he’s talking about. His presence is utterly incredible which needs to be viewed first hand to be fully understood. The best way I can describe it is an aura of raw masculine energy, watching him walk around like he owned the place was unbelievable. Aside from Steve being the real deal, he was very patient, understanding and kind and recognized that approaching was a massive deal for me. He never forced me to approach when I didn’t want to and gave me critical feedback for the approaches I did do. Steve also gave me a lot of advice about life in general. We finished in Tiger Tiger where we sat down for a chat and I felt over only doing a handful of approaches I’d let myself down a bit and was feeling pretty frustrated and helpless. Steve chatted with me some more and left me with an incredibly deep and inspirational talk just before he left. At this point I was holding back tears because of how much Steve seemed to genuinely care and despite my ability (or lack of at the moment) he looked me in the eye and told me he believed I can make massive progress in the next 3-6 months. This was a massive boost and a talk I’ll remember for a long time.
To finish off the residential I spent Sunday night with Lee. Lee was incredibly cool, calm and collected and as with the other trainers offered on-point advice to improve. We moved around pubs for bar game and managed to get in a number of approaches. A few of these started going well and could feel myself actually start to relax and enjoy myself. Lee did a demo of opening at the start of the night then wanted to me to proactively open myself which helped a lot for coming to the point of where I will have to do this myself. Lee also outside demonstrated a rapid kiss close within seconds and how to know when you can get away with this. We then finished and debriefed and how to move forward from here and what I should do to keep the ball rolling from here.
One point to note is that all instructors all have their different styles but all use the same fundamental principles. At the end of the weekend I believe I now have more than enough to start transforming this aspect of my life. Authentic PUA is all about making the best of yourself and becoming your best self. No gimmicks, magic tricks or nonsense. All straight to the point practical real word advice from honest, intelligent and genuine instructors that actually get results themselves (a key point to note btw)
Anyway, enough of a review I’ve now got some serious work to do..
Coming into this at what you might call a more advanced level, I was somewhat scpetical in the days leading up to my session with Steve about what he could really teach me. My scepticism could not have been more misplaced.
Over the course of the afternoon as we walked around the city centre, merely being around Steve and witnessing how he holds himself, his level of masculine social dominance, and how he interacts with girls, no matter how hot, was an instruction in itself.
I've always aspired to be able to get the very top tier of women, the 9.5s, models and hosiptality girls. Up until yesterday however, I'd never met anyone in my life who was actually capable of doing this, using a methodical, replicable system which any guy can learn. Simply meeting someone who I knew could turn this kind of attraction on at will provided a reference point in my life to know that what I aspired to could in fact be acheived, and moreover than I wasn't even that far away from it.
During the course of our session, Steve shrewdly identified a deep-seated psychological sticking point that was holding me back. I'm a very intelligent guy who has his life together, and my belief system is rock-solid - for these reasons, I genuinely don't believe there was anyone other than Steve, who is also an extremely intelligent dude, with all his experience, who could have identified and diagnosed my problem.
I've come away from the session with a new-found optimism and distinct actionable points to work on.
If any of you are reading these testimonials, weighing up a decision as to whether to go ahead and book training with Steve, then I urge you to go ahead and do it. It will be nothing but a positive experience, and accelerate your development as a person and your ability with women greatly.
How do you put a prize on something that will improve one of the most important aspects of your life? How do you put a prize on a life-changing experience?
Steve Jabba's training program is just that.
Before meeting Steve I had never ever done a cold approach. He took me through the basics, and explained what kind of mentality I should have. But most importantly, I got to watch Steve interacting with girls. And let me tell you, ALL of the girls he talked to responded positively, and he was just joking around with them and having a good time. He definitely brightened their day. The attitude he displays is infectious and will make you approach girls. I'm not saying it is easy, I was nervous as hell, but he gets you into a mindset that approaching girls is the natural and right thing to do. And it does get easier after the first approach. He also does not put pressure on you, you can take your time, and it sort of feels like you are just out with a buddy. Before I came to learn from Steve, I had already read a lot of pickup literature, with very limited success. But it was time to forget all about that. What Steve and the other trainers teaches is simpler, more honest and more direct.
Coming from abroad, I spent three days being coached by Steve and three of his trainers, Colin, Lee and Adam. They are all great guys, and they genuinely care about helping you.
The underlying concepts they teach are the same, but they approach it from different angles. Colin is so knowledgeable, you can ask him anything, and he will have a good answer. He taught me a lot about of the importance of value and identity, expressing who you truly are, and what you stand for. He taught me all the phases you should go through when meeting new girls in the club in a simple way, and also a specific method to becoming a better conversationalist, which is so cool. Lee is incredible at physical escalation, and he has such a good attitude and vibe. Before I met him, I was not comfortable touching girls I had just met. Lee took me through all the steps, and now I am much more comfortable physically escalating, which is a huge deal. He also taught me a lot of attraction signals girls put out that I would never have guessed in a million years (for example two girls laughing and pointing at you is actually an attraction signal, woot). Adam is an awesome guy, and his philosophy is all about having fun and enjoying what you are doing. Watching him in the club is just mind blowing. He will dance like crazy, he will say whatever he feels like. He does not care what girls or anyone think of him, he is just out to have a good time, and it comes off as tremendously attractive, girls in the club loved him! Me and Adam went on an instant date with two girls we met on the street. What is so cool is that he didn't do anything special when approaching them, just stated his interest and took charge of the interaction, and they were happy to go along with us almost straight away. It really opened my eyes to what is possible.
I can highly recommend this Steve's course to anyone. It will be challenging, you will be pushed out of your comfort zone and experience highs and lows, but you are in great hands, you will be inspired by the great expertise of the instructor, and you will change for the better. I really doubt that there is any better course than this out there.
I am writing this two days after my experience, and I have had more positive interactions with new girls in these days two days than in the previous two months combined, and I am already getting numbers. Wow. Go for it. Learn from Steve. You won't regret it!
Couple of days ago I have experienced a 4 hours one-on-one day game training session with Steve Jabba and can totally recommend it to others. Will do another 4 hours soon.
My main problem before this session was approach anxiety. I leave in England for more than two years but during this time have almost never approached girls I liked. The excuse I had for myself was that my level of English was not good enough to do that. Objectively, I understood that everything is fine with my English but on the spot this excuse always worked and I felt I need someone to reassure me and give me confidence. Steve easily coped with this task: I approached girls many times, I haven't felt much anxiety during the approaches and I was generally enjoying approaching the girls I liked and chatting to them.
Should also mention that I enjoyed Steve’s way of mentoring – you feel like you are just walking around with a more experienced friend/wingman which gives you a quick advice in case you struggle to find the way to open a girl/girl set and gives you immediately the feedback on what you did good and what could be improved in a constructive positive way. He is also ready to answer any questions.
Throughout the process Steve talks your through the basics/the key ingredients of his “system”. If you have been on Steve’s website and read his articles you have probably noticed that his approach is different to many other PUA’s. Everything is based around being authentic and how to use this authenticity to get laid. This approach is really close to my heart and probably this is why I enjoyed it so much and can recommend Authentic PUA to others. Thanks Steve
Two of my friends and I met Steve recently for a day/evening session. The first thing that stood out was how sympathetically/mate-like Steve addressed our nerves... which were in abundance.
There was no " you have to just do this" or "that's the wrong way, this is the right way." Despite that fact there were three of us, we were all helped individually on our weak areas but more crucially shown how to develop what we had and what made us unique.
I think this is what sets Steve's way apart from the others (certainly from others I've spoken to), instead of trying to "clone" you into a pua, he just works with what you've got, gets the best out of you and does it naturally.
It's taken me a very long time to realise that you can't just read books, do what they say and get girls, because it's not YOU!
Until we met Steve, we'd been going out, convincing ourselves that we were trying etc, but in reality, we were just being massive wusses and not pushing ourselves.
This all changed after just one day! One of the guys now has an awesome girlfriend, with whom he's very happy and the other guy and I are enjoying having a choice with our dating life. It's funny too... after a while you start seeing the mistakes that other guys make, right in front of you, then you can just bounce on in there and steal the bored looking girl with "save me" written all over her face!
If you want to have a decent life and you've even once thought "god, I wish I could be with that girl," you need to see Steve, because you'll be shown how to, using nothing more than what you have already!
It's hard work on your part, but it's probably the most worthwhile thing you could ever do.
A very profound experience and I'd say very much worth the money. My problem has always been extreme nervousness in social situations. So the idea of rejection, especially infront of onlookers, has always terrified me.
My aim is not to lay as many women as possible but to be very comfortable with attracting/flirting with attractive women so that I can find the ones worth being with.
I found Steve to be very knowledeable about my specific issues and understanding of my aims.
I came to this 1to1 with next to no experience of chatting up women and I'm glad I did it. I knew that I was doing something wrong so it was extremely helpful to have Steve there to point out specifically what the flaws in my mannerisms were and what a detrimental effect these were having.
Steve took the process at my pace and I never felt like I was being forced to do anything I didn't want to do.
I can't say the four hours were a breeze. At some points it was not easy at all but it was at those points that it was made apparent to me how much work is needed and in which specific areas.
During the course I made a noticeable improvement in my ability. I started the session completely crashing and burning a few times (atleast thats how it felt to me) but once I started to get some positive results I became a lot more comfortable and even ended the session by successfully getting the number of a really cute girl who would have really intimidated before.
I would recommend this to anyone who wants to become better at attracting women without wasting their effort learning silly routines. During the course of the day I saw Steve comfortably chatting up with a some very good looking women. He didn't take their details (he has a girlfriend) but it seemed to me as though those women were really into him. So I am convinced that this guy knows what he is doing.
I can't say that 'I am a new man'. It would be naive for me to expect that in only 4 hours. But this session has given me a serious shove in the right direction and I know I can get the results I want so long as I work on it. I have a good idea of what to improve on specifically.
A good session and one which I am confident will have a great impact on my future endeavours.
Steve is an awesome PUA trainer!!! I don't have the best track record in terms of picking up women so I decided to do something about it in order to change my life for the better, and I'm glad I did! Steve took me through the basics of how to get myself in the right frame of mind to approach women with confidence, masculinity and attractiveness. We started off small and I was initially very nervous as I had my doubts at to whether I could get the interests of a random girl let alone become a PUA in my own right. Still I kept in mind everything Steve had said and after a couple of minutes walking down the street I tried my first approach...to my great surpirse and relief the cute girl I talked to was very responsive! A few more approaches, a new haircut, and a boost of self confidence later and I managed to approach a cute blond Polish girl in a department store and get a great reaction, her phone number, a promise to meet up later, and a kiss on the cheek. I am astounded at just how quickly I have been able to progress with Steve's help. I have a lot more work to do on my own but I will have Steve's help along the way. I have conquered my fear and I will keep improving until I can say with pride that I am a genuine PUA!!! I would recommend Steve to anyone. It will change you life if you just committ to it!
Steven Smith found this review useful
I had almost given up. I thought I would be forever doomed to randomly meet girls that would by chance get interested in me. My job is full of men and predominantly rational (yes, I am a physicist, that leaves all said), so I started to wonder whether my life was a huge mistake. I knew I was enjoying physics besides women, but the anxiety of not ever getting in control of my sexual life had been lowering my self-esteem and my love for life for too many years.
As a clever and rational scientist, who do you think would be able to convince me that all this bullshit about getting girls on the street would not be a fallacy? Just another way to get money out from frustrated chumps, I thought.
Well, It turned out that I was one of these frustrated chumps, and it also turned out that getting girls on the street IS REALLY possible. I still haven't met Steve personally (I have promised me to do it), but so far his videos and tips have made for me what none other person has.
My mindset had already started to change, but the final mental boost that empowered me to go out and try to meet some women out of nothing is due to Steve. So far I already had some drinks with girls from places like a bar, the street or a supermarket. I got some numbers which ended up flaking and I kissed a girl in a disco. And I tell you, the very simple fact of being able to do that on your own is pleasing enough that you don't even start to care about being rejected. Why? Because you KNOW you are doing what you REALLY want. You know that you are letting your instincts guide you. You are being genuine. And when you are being genuine, nothing on earth can counteract this fact. Even the most evil rejection ends up being a "well, I did what I really desired. Everything else is out of my control, so why should I care?"
I would want to recommend Steve over any other guru you may know, but then I would lose the opportunity to have him as my one an only mentor. And this screws me up. In any case, I assure you it is not going to be long till he gets very famous. If you are reading this: Hurry up!
Firstly, what struck me about Steve was his geniuness and kindness throughtout the whole thing, I really did feel like I was with a mate whilst doing this.
secondly, he was totally understanding about my ability, being my first time & all and my extreme nervousness. and never forced me when I wasn't ready.
Thirdly, the knowledge this man has is extrodinary, and can guide you through any problem with similies and real life anecdotes.
lastly the advice and feedback is not generic or could be told to everyone it really is catered to you and individual which is fantastic as leaving the bootcamp I will know exactly what I have to work on
Hope this helps guys
After perusing Steve's website, I went on a date last night armed with what I had learned AND HAD THE MOST AMAZING FIRST DATE EVER, IT WAS INCREDIBLE.
I didn't sleep with her but I kept in mind the things I'd seen on Steve's blogs and videos of him chasing girls. Specifically the way he didn't try to do anything special but just stayed centered and did what he wanted. As a result, I didn't have an ounce of anxiety; my mouth wasn't dry and my hands weren't shaking. At first, holding eye contact didn't feel natural but after 5 minutes I thought 'f*** it' and would just look at her and enjoy looking at her. There were no awkward silences. One of us always thought of something to say and it was often her that did which suited me just fine.
We spoke for three hours before I had to leave (for the last train of the night) with both of us saying we wish I could have stayed longer. I did say if I missed the train I would have to catch one in the morning and she said (in a relaxed way) that she wouldn't have sex on the first date but I swear that wouldn't have been true.
We got on so well; when we left the pub, I kissed her, again and again. It felt so natural, the way I always imagined a first kiss should feel. She was so into it that my hands started to wander and I gave her bum a little squeeze. If I had the opportunity to stay longer, I think she would have been too worked up by the end to say no.
I have, however, arranged a second date with her. Next time, I'll arrange it so no train timetable cuts our time short.
Of course it helped that she was very attracted to me to begin with. This wasn't exactly a cold approach and she asked me out but in the past I would have still mucked it up by being too terrified to believe I was worthy of her. I can see such simple value in what Steve teaches. I didn't know it could be this easy or natural. I especially loved Part 3 of the First Date article that said just 'treat her like your girlfriend.' It's amazing how we only become open to ideas when someone else says they can be true.
I'd love to go see Steve but can't afford it right now. I believe he plans to publish a book, when he does I will definitely buy it.
I can wholeheartedly recommend Steve's teachings.
Ok so being with Steve earlier has not only altered my self as a girls who wants to attract beautiful women ..but it has transformed me as a person and this is coming from a 19 year old doorman who use be hopeless with women ..now I have an absolute positive perception on picking up women of all kinds ..and approach anxeity is long gone after today ..so I'd quit reading this and take absolute massive action and meet Steve to see he's the real deal ;) ..he's also the only pua I know of who offers a money back guarantee ..I also got a 30 year old milfs number earlier and I'm 19 haha now that's awesome ..had a few more decent approaches aswell :-) I highly recommend Steve ..he's on the top of his game
I spent 4 hours with Steve around Oxford street area. This was my first time ever in field or doing any kind of conscious pua stuff, so I was a bit nervous to start, approach anxiety and getting in my head about what to say.
- number close from cold approach to a girl at a bus stop,
- a good interaction with a hot Italian girl.i would say she was an 8, about 21 years old. I opened with a compliment about her nice lips and gorgeous eyes, she loved it. This was the longest interaction of the day, had some good kino but didn't follow through and elevate things enough.
- approached an Irish chick who looked really happy that I had come up to her but she was going to airport so she didn't have much time
- approached and complimented on her eyes to a European blonde who said she had a boyfriend but was noticeably flattered and smiling, allowed me to get in some kino too
- had 2 girls who brushed me off pretty quickly, one was actually the first girl of the day, she had a boyfriend who was actually standing behind us. The other was a bit later in the day when my state and energy was lagging a bit and I needed to be more dominant.
- I don't feel like I was rejected by anyone, I just feel like I did better/ had more intent in the ones that were more successful.
- Steve was very helpful in telling me why something went the way it did.
- taught me to open with a clear intent, such as a compliment or in some way making it clear why you are approaching her rather than doing 'game' approaches that are less sincere
- the Italian chick fizzled out because I didn't dominate enough, for example he said I could have taken her by the arm and led her a bit more so things kept moving. And he also said I could have taken it further and next time try to get the most out of it.
- Steve really emphasised why we are all here, to meet women and have close interactions or get laid. This helped because if you aim to just ask for directions or to just get a number then you have a limiting mentality, so Steve taught me to always keep the eye on the prize and bring that sexual energy into the interaction.
- I learnt that what you say is not as important as state. If you are in a sexual, confident state neither of you will recall the words but you both remember the connection
- very well worth the money, highly recommended
- taught me some refreshing perspectives on game and mentality which I can see having a positive effect in other areas of my life
- made me realise that pick up is just another normal part of life rather some weird trickery that you have to get a black belt in!
I kept hearing about this guy Steve? on Richard La Ruina's videos, I found his videos and everything i see instanlty made sense and fits perfecty for the UK. I say for the UK because regardless of what people say it is differnt to the US where most of the matriel comes from. Steve's style and approach to life is unlike any ive seen and after spending the day with him ive been set on a path i believe will change my life. I have had good success with women within moy social circle or in clubs when im in my comfort zone however Steve showed me a whole world i did'nt know was out there. Walking down the street with Steve taking in his perception of life,women,universal male traits, the list goes on all gold dust. I will be totally honest i went out the night before and was not a 100% the next day. Steve took all this into consideration and if you need the push to appraoch women in the day or night he will give you it. However not being totally happy the day after a night out Steve did'nt force me to approach when i did'nt want t. Steve explained if the attraction pull is not there then you do not need to approach for the sake of it (practice) instead you should aim for best possible outcome i.e the lay! In short Steve Jabba will open your eyes to a world you did not know was there.
Came up to london to meet steve with my two freinds, we where prity nervous but he calmed us down and showd us some ways to get over it. had a grate day and night, learnt alot and was relly inspiering. relly nice guy and i would higley recomend you go and see him.
Steve took a few of us out for the day and gave us a excellent balance of theory and practicle experience, showed us some good areas in London and gave very practicle, real, advice. At the end of the day he made us feel very relaxed and really helped us all improve our 'game' and fundamentals.
Ok so first off, you are not thinking straight if you dont check this guy out. He knows whats going on, and now we've been talking and he has been critiquing my approaches, I realise that Im annoyed with him for not being around years ago and telling me what he knows years ago. Aside from that, I have things to be getting on with and Im going to be having alot more fun meeting women from here on out. No games, nonsense and pretending required. You get honest feedback that is immediately helpful and I will get another session later to ask him about what I assume will be more advanced problems Im having later. I had fun, introduced myself to some beauties, and hung out with a cool dude who wants to help. So I give him my full recommendation. Its nice to have someone put you in the picture. I got plenty to think about and work on but I know which way Im going so many thanks Steve.
I had an irrational fear of approaching and it was getting too much to tolerate. As a way to combat this, I started doing cold approaching during the day sporadically and was able to get into brief conversations but I felt a bit 'fake' as I would just approach whatever looked remotely attractive. On meeting Steve, I gradually came to realise the importance of accessing the part that compells you to approach a woman you're physically attracted to and behaving in alignment with that throughout the interaction. This was a major turning point and I now feel more confident in my ability to express myself freely without fear of judgement. I would recommend Steve to anyone who wants to stop running 'game' and start being themselves.
I had a 1 to 1 session with Steve Jabba from authenticpua.com on Saturday night and thought I´d write a review. I booked the session a few weeks ago so I paid 50 pounds an hour but I think Steve´s prices might have changed since then.
The coaching was for club game and we met in Tiger Tiger in Leicester Square. I´m fairly inexperienced in clubs which is why I wanted the coaching as I haven´t been able to go to clubs regularly until very recently due to my personal circumstances. However I´ve been going out every week for over a month now. The issue I´m having at the moment is inconsistency, Steve´s focus seems to be inner game and I think he´s helped me identify what is at the root of the inconsistancy.
Something that´s happened to me recently is that I started weight training which has resulted in me loosing weight and getting a better stature. The result of this is that I get a lot more attention from women in clubs than I used to. At the start of the night in Tiger Tiger a women came up to me when me and Steve were standing at the bar and said "I just had to tell you that you´re really gorgeous". This is nice when it happens but relying on things like this can be a problem and is why I have some really good nights and some really shit nights. Steve explained he had a similar experience when he first started weight training and he said the danger of it is that you can get trapped in a validation loop. You can end up seeking these validating responses from women and when they come you feel really good but when they dont come or you get bad responses and rejections it knocks your state all the way down.
I had a bit of a mixed night in the end, It stated positively went down hill (due to my mood) and then ended positively. Steve gave me a few "outer game" tips that were useful. Previously when a girl I liked gave me clear IOI´s on the dance floor I´d go up to her and start dancing with her, Steve recommended instead touching her on the arm and using an observational opener which worked better. I noticed a young blond girl smile and looking at me on the dance floor, Steve noticed it too and told me to go up to her and say something. I cant remember what I opened with but it went down well, she turned out to be a German Au-pair and was responding very positively when I was talking to her and touching her I tried to dance with her after a bit and things fizzled out. Steve pointed out that I should have lead her away from the dance floor at this point which is something I know myself but forget to do at times due to experience. He also pointed out that there is no need escalate physically as quickly as I was and that its ok to take your time. After this I had a very mixed bag of approaches and responses which resulted in my mood going down hill and me either not feeling like approaching or when I did approach getting a bad reaction. At the end of the evening I had a chat with steve about this and he spoke to me about seeking validation and about how I was letting bad responses from women affect my state which then affects how women respond to being approached, he also spoke about being less hesitant when I´m approaching. I think this is the most useful thing I´ve taken away, how my state is actually the most important aspect about how a girl responds to being approached.
After Steve left I hung around in Tiger Tiger for a bit, I tried to relax and get my self in a better mood then had another attempt. I noticed a young blond girl on the dance floor looking at me so I touched her arm as Steve suggested and made an observational comment (cant remember what I said). We chatted for a bit and I lead her away from the dance floor as Steve pointed out I should have done with the German girl. We chatted for a bit, turns out she´s 20 and from Hungary, she asked my age I was honest with her and said 37, she was visibly shocked but ultimately didnt seem to mind. We ended up kissing for a bit and exchanging numbers. We were texting on the night bus home and she´s very keen to see me again so the night ended on a high.
In all it was a really useful night, I´m still getting my head around the dynamics in a club and the little bits of outer game advice Steve gave me along with the more in depth stuff about inner game and mindset and how this affects how girls respond to you was really helpful.
I did a bootcamp with another PUA company before and felt that although I was given a lot of information and learned some good 'techniques', it never felt like it was me, it was more like an act.
But Steve will teach you what really attracts a woman, without the need for any tricks and routines. He's all about using a man's natural sexual instincts, and being honest and upfront about your intentions right from the beginning. When I approached girls in this way, feeling completely congruent with my words and behaviour it was almost effortless... no akwardness, no trying to remember lines... and I was getting phone numbers within 2 minutes of meeting a girl.
You've probably heard Richard La Ruina talk about a mysterious 'Steve' on most of his videos. Well this is Steve, authenticpua.com. My wings were talking about Steve too, we found his site and I did one on one. If youre fed up with all the PUA crap and lying to girls and using fake canned routines then meeting Steve will be refreshing. He hates being fake and full of crap, and is honest, direct and fun in his approach. Apparently most of the good bits you learn at Gamblers PUA training bootcamps came form Steve originally. Check him out, seriously worth the money, considering he is less than a PUA bootcamp that has 15 other guys in it. For one on one training! Nice.
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